Sunday, June 5, 2011

Friendships & Reason.

People come into your life for a reason, and once you realize what that reason is, you'll know exactly what to do for them. When someone comes into your life for a reason, it is usually to fulfill a need that you have expressed, in some way or another. They have come to assist you through difficulty, to provide you with support and guidance, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. Maybe your turn has come to share, or maybe it's just time for you to learn and grow as a person. They bring you an experience of peace or simply make you laugh. They may teach you something that you've never done and they usually bring you an unbelievable amount of joy. They may seem like a godsend and it's because they are. They are there for the reason that you need them to be. These friendships/relationships teach you lifetime lessons...things you must build upon to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an incovenient time, this friend will say something or do something to bring this relationship to an end. Sometimes they walk away, sometimes they die. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. But what we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it's time to move on...

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