Yeah, yeah... "She doesn't know my life... easy for her to say... she doesn't know what she's talking about..." BUT, I'm going to say it anyways.
Don't settle. Don't give in. Don't give up. Don't lose hope. Don't disregard your expectations.
Just because a few of the guys you meet don't meet your expectations doesn't mean they are too high. You just haven't met the right one yet. Chances are, when you actually do, he'll even exceed those expectations.
Just because "every other guy is doing it" doesn't mean you have to accept it. Your guy doesn't have to "do it" or whatever the new "it" is. Don't accept bull crap. You deserve better.
Just because he's not what Cosmo defines as the "perfect man," doesn't mean that he isn't the perfect man for you. Quirks are a good thing. If you know that it's what God wants, don't even read that trash. It's irrelevant and will do nothing less than cause you to second guess yourself and your man.
Finally, it's never a bad thing to expect respect. But first, you've got to respect yourself, AND accept yourself.
I'm far from a Love Guru, but there is nothing worse than doing my "social networking rounds" and seeing negative comments about being single, there being no hope, and boys drool nonsense. It really is disheartening. I hate to know that there are many girls out there who have settled, and will never truly experience what they ought to be.
I just pray that each of you would stick it out, persevere, pray, until one day you're blessed beyond anything you could humanly fathom. God's plan for you will be worth it.
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